Beware of Online Stalkers

I have had a lot of online stalkers nowadays and I don’t know how to stop them. But before the main show, let me define what is an online stalker. They are people who thrive on hurting and abusing others. They are disgusting slime that deserve to spend their lives in jail. My guess is that most of the online stalkers are people who do not have the courage to do this in real life and face to face. They gain their courage by the fact they can use the anonymity of the web. They are like bullies, except they do not have the courage to stand up and fight. And so, most of them, despite that they can pretend to be intimidating, are nothing but chickens hiding behind their computer screens. (This was the most appropriate definition of an online stalker that I found in the internet. Thanks to Bad Teddy of Knights of Kindness for the wonderful definition of an online stalker. You can also read about his wonderful article of How to Put Stalkers in Jail. (I think Maki should be reading this whole article by Bad Teddy, hehe).


Anyways, I had a new online stalker. Maybe it was the old one who was cloaking in a different mascot or a new one that wears the same mask. (We can’t tell because this living thing was Anonymous). I hope this wasn’t the offline ogling stalker. Haha!

The stalker that I’m talking about was pretty clever. He used different proxy sites to post a comment on my blog so that I will not be able to trace him. This stalker also registered a Gmail Account under my name. But the account username was slightly different to my Gmail account. If someone happened to e-mail you claiming to be me using jezlau@gmail.com and asking for some money or telling u bad words or keeps on annoying you, text me first or leave a comment in this blog to verify if it was really me, unless someone hacked my Gmail Account. The only e-mail address that I’m using was jehzlau@dostscholars.org and nothing more, The e-mail was kinda confusing because it was similar to my Gmail: jehzlau@gmail.com, but without “H”. This human being told Abe that I’m doing something fishy with my Proxy sites.

Thanks to Abe for the heads up! 🙂

There are also online stalkers who used my name to post a comment. I traced the IP and found out that he/she was from Japan. Smart Guy 🙂


And also, there are online stalkers who even used my Full Real Name, E-mail and Blog URL to post a comment. (I change it now to Anonymous because I don’t want that breathing object to use my name and post a comment in my blog.)


There were online stalkers who posted a comment with false claims. Informing everyone that I’m stealing passwords to access crap Friendster, Myspace and Facebook profiles. That was so sad… (This was the same stalker under the name jezlau who e-mailed Abe, because they had the same IP address).


UPDATE 05/21/2008: The stalker even posted a message at the DOST-SEI scholars forum to accuse me that I’m really a phisher/password stealer/hacker. Wooot?

How to deal with online stalkers?
1. Don’t quit blogging.
2. Chat with your online stalker and befriend him/her (if you can).
3. If he/she says something bad about you. Defend Yourself.
4. If he/she was flirting on you. Don’t flirt back.
5. If he/she sent a death threat to you. Send also a death threat to him/her! Haha.
6. Be understanding. Some people had no life. Pity them. Balang araw may papansin din sana sa kanila. – Cigarette Girl
7. __________. Number 7 is blank, if you want to share something of how to deal with stalkers, leave a comment below. Yay!

Message to the stalker: Get some life! 🙂 Magtanim ka nalang ng Kamote!!!

Btw, I’m not posting a comment and talking to myself in my own blog to tell everyone that I have had a lot of commentators (It is a great shame on my part if it was true). Ask the stalker at jezlau@gmail.com (if he bothers to reply), this guy was for real. Hehehe…